Your next step towards life-giving intimacy after betrayal begins here. 

Take a deeper look at our amazing couples cohort program RENEWING US and everything it has to offer. And when you are ready, reserve your spot for our next group launch. 


What you get in RENEWING US….

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Top Notch Content

Each week you will receive proven relational recovery insights and practices from trusted recovery and relationship experts, Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith. These tools delivered throughout the program through teaching videos, worksheets and couples exercises will help drive greater connection and intimacy in your marriage. Learn together as a couple what you need to thrive! 

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Personalized Support

A core part of the program is our unique support through our regular small group coaching calls designed to help navigate your journey of relational restoration every step of the way toward a thriving connection. Get the guidance you need when you need it from our  amazing team of facilitators and mentors who have walked this path successfully.

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Real Relationships

Each couple that joins the RENEWING US program can expect to get ongoing encouragement and accountability from a vibrant community of like-minded couples. You can finally build relationships with people who get it and are seeking the same kind of marriage strength as you - all in a safe environment that understands the challenges of navigating betrayal and recovery.

Hear what people are saying about the RENEWING US Program.

  • "We felt lost in our recovery journey because a lot of material out there focuses on recovery or healing for individuals, or on initial stages of recovery for the couple (for example, disclosure process). Through this program, we feel like we learned a clear, helpful, and effective path for building relational intimacy that we can use at any point in our relationship.  We got to see how to attain the high-level goals as well as practice day-to-day behaviors using practical tools that help us get to the relationship we have been hoping for."

  • “This has held us accountable, stretched us to try new things, challenged us, and helped us deepen our relationship to a level even deeper than before discovery or any other time in our 25 years of marriage. We also appreciated the community we gained through participating. Before Renewing Us, we often felt like we were the only ones we knew dealing with these issues. Now, not only do we have a group of peers but a change of perspective—we know we are not alone in our efforts to build a thriving marriage." 

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Details and FAQs

  • Renewing Us is an ongoing program for couples wanting to work towards a relationship greater than they can even imagine. During the program you will be a part of a small cohort of couples where you can expect to receive: 

    • Couples recovery video teaching content delivered through online episodes to give you insights on how optimizing your journey as a couple towards intimacy. 

    • Weekly 90 minute live cohort processing sessions (approximately 46 total per year) to help address particular areas of growth in your relationship, deepen relational strengths, and get direct support from our coaching team. This includes set aside time for husbands and wives to meet separately to process concepts individually. 

    • Monthly specialty trainings and webinars to equip you with the most up to date interventions or techniques to help overcome barriers to success. 

    • Quarterly strategy sessions for each individual couple in the program to assess and make great progress towards goals. 

    • Welcoming and dynamic community of couples who get your story, are also striving for an amazing marriage, and will support you on your specific path.

    • Post program launch strategy to set you and spouse up towards even greater connection and ministry! 

    • The Renewing Us- Recovery Program is billed at $700 per month.

    • The minimum commitment for all new couples is 12 months but each couple is allowed to work through the material at their own pace extending the program as long as it is needed.

    • During active membership of the program couples will included a variety of resources such as access to all the resources detailed above (course videos, facilitated cohort calls, quarterly individualized strategy sessions, specialty calls, and the online community with coaching Q&A). 

    • Payments can be made via credit card, Apple Pay, or PayPal. 


    • The Renewing Us program is specifically designed for couples who are in actively seeking healing and restoration in marriages affected by sexual addiction, infidelity, and betrayal. 

    • This program has been crafted for couples who are beyond the initial stages of discovery where truth and safety have begun to be restored. 

    • Typically couples who are joining this group have completed key recovery markers such as a current minimum 90 days of sobriety from all addictions, therapeutic Full Disclosure, a Partner Impact Letter, etc. While having done these practices is not a requirement, we do want to stress that this is not a program for couples in crisis. If you are early in your recovery journey we invite you to connect with our coaching program here.

    • Finally, this program is for couples who are willing to invest time and energy so that their marriage becomes truly special. A couple where each partner is willing to be open and engaged fully in the process. 

Groups fill up fast...register today to hold your spot

Become a part of the growing movement of couples experiencing miraculous transformations in their marriage! We launch groups every few months and since this is very specialized program we limit registrations.

Our next cohort is set to launch in April 2025. 

Many of our cohorts fill up well before launch. If you and your spouse would like to join us in our next cohort fill out the form below to schedule a 30 minute interest call so that we can make sure this program will be the right fit for you, answer any questions you have, and get your spot reserved!